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My wife never tells me how much money is in her Bank Account . According to you, is she loyal and faithful ? |
My wife never tells me how much money is in her Bank Account . According to you, is she loyal and faithful ? There is nothing in what you have said that says she is being unfaithful. I'm not sure what your financial arrangements are, but supposing you are both working, then provided all the bills are being paid, the mortgage isn't falling behind, and she isn't wasting your or her money I don't see any reason why you should worry. If you feel that she is saving all her money and you are spending all yours on staying alive (paying for food, accomodation, car, etc), then you should discuss this with her. If she has a job, then you should expect her to pay part or all of some of the bills. I do think you are entitled to to at least have an idea how much she earns (especially as the Inland Revenue are entitled to know) and for her to pay some of the expenses, but if she doesn't want to disclose that, then don't make an issue of it. Trust is an important part of marriage, and to me your motive is wrong. What you should be concerned about is if she has any large debts and isn't able to meet them. I think if you want to ask her any questions about her financial arrangements, then you should be asking those sort of questions first because they will come back to haunt you. Addictions are the same, if she (or you) have any then you need to deal with them now. I do think as the main provider of finance (I say this because I'm guessing you are paying all the bills - regardless of how much she earns, if she saves it all then effectively she is earning nothing that contributes to the household) you are entitled to have a beer or buy some little perk, and if she is saving all her money while you aren't then that "will grate" which isn't good. Of course, the opposite also applies, you have to be prepared to disclose all your financial transactions to her. If you don't feel your up to doing that, then don't make to much of an issue out of it. Like I said, the most important thing is for you to be in the black and out of the red. no must be my wife |
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