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My wife & I are separated. I quit arguing for joint counselling. Now I see she's opened Credit Acounts. Help |
Do I confront her with this revalation that I found on a printed paper on her desk? I was over at the house to pick up mail etc and it was right there so I didn't go digging even though it is "our" house. I am worried I may be too naive and she is getting advice from her family that has been married & divorced many times. We were together 22 years. any thoughts on verifying if ANy MORE like this exist? She has told me to my face last week when we sat down to meet about bills that she has not opened any accounts. Perhaps I misunderstood or this is a line of credit not an account so she is not really lying but hey, it is deceitful. HELP comments please. I do not want and violent or mean women bashing comments please. There's a "legal separation" that you can file for so your assets will remain in place. Then any debt that she may incur will not be your responsibility if you do end up getting divorced. It costs a little money, but if you think there's still hope for your marriage to work out, filing for a divorce is not the right solution. Also, if she won't go to counseling with you, go by yourself. dude, it sucks to be you.......you are screwed. Unless you file for divorce right away, she can open any account she desires, and you will be liable. you should confront her about what you found. don't accuse her of wrong doing until you know for sure what's goin on. Yes, I would inquire about these findings especially if she is opening credit accounts that are linked with your name on it. You should get your credit report and see if any credit cards have been added under your SS#....it will show you everything. You need to talk to your lawyer ASAP for if she runs these things up and your legally married you could still be held responsible for it unless you can prove it was done after legal separation. Some states don't have "legal" separation.....only divorce......so run, not walk and tell your attorney what you find out on the credit report My boss just went thru a divorce and he had let his ex have one credit card when they "separated" but was in his name.....he lowered the credit line....duhhhhh and she was to pay for it....she maxed it out then mailed it back to him saying she couldn't pay for it..... You need to have a legal separation--that way anything she does financially is not your responsibility |
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