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My child support Paid with my income taxes every year,why do I get harassed by his ex?

my child support Paid with my income taxes every year,why do I get harassed by his ex?
But my husband ex calls harrasing us.Telling us to pay her. this is not right we pay it to child support right? Is there any thing we can do to make her quit? She insults us and threats. She live's in TX and we live in
CAl.There daughter is now 21 and she the ex didn't even let us know were they lived .I found his daughter after 17 years and she came and live with us.We all enjoyed her being ,my husband and his daughter now have a father And daughter relastionship. we all re great except for the ex who won't leave us alone.My husband 's daughter went back to TX with Mom ,but moved out of her moms because her mom won't stop putting down the dad she just meant.
And he is no dead beat dad. he's daughter thinks he's great and loves him.

I know, I know... it's a pain. However, the court order is likely such that child support is SUPPOSED to be paid on a monthly basis and instead you're waiting until tax refund time (once a year) to pay her anything. Like it or not, hubby had a child and should have been helping support that child all those years and, apparently, didn't. Therefore, he has to refund his ex-wife for all those years she carried the financial burden alone. He's lucky he's not in jail.

Get an unlisted phone number.
Why do you have their daughter and you don't have yours-LOSER!
Go to the police and get them to get a restraing order against her.
If teh daughter is 21 then she can see her father anytime she wants to and the mother can;t do anything about it.

Also if she is 21 your husband should not be paying child support.
Give her what she wants and she will go away. She did her job, what is owed couldn't ever be done for less. Relist your phone number.
If the IRS is pulling the child support from your tax return, your husband is truly a dead beat dad as that is the last resort. Basically, if they can't get money out of you throughout the year or you owe back support, they pull it from the taxes. This makes me believe that their is a possibility that maybe the "ex" has something to gripe about. Do yourself a favor and tell your husband to PAY HIS DAMN SUPPORT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's called Parental Alienation Syndrome, and attempted or real, it happens a whole lot more than you think. You get harassed because the ex has a whole lot of issues that need to be examined. She doesn't have her ex, and she damn well doesn't want anybody else to have him But my question is, why is she harassing you about CS now when the kid is 21?