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Should I allow my deadbeat baby daddy calim my child on income taxes and he give me half? |
My daughters father hasnt done a damn thing for my daught since she was 3 months old now she is 11 months old, at one time he said she wasn't his child he didn't and wasnt going to take care of her and he wanted to sign over his rights, when I served him with the termination of perental rights papers 2 weeks ago he writes this statement stating he wants to take care of her now and he is ready to take responsibility and have visits with her. it's also around tax time. I would have had no problem with it cause I would claim my other daughter and my little brother so I would have my 2 dependents, but he didn't take care of my baby and at one time he didn't want her why such a change of heart now, he also embarrassed me in front of his friends and called me names and put me down everytime I approached him about my daughter, now he wants to claim her. I would be allowing him to play me like a fool I never really got over the time he pulled a gun when we were arguing once should he claim her I say no, he sounds like he just wants to take advantage of that. It also sounds like a trick. You say you served him with termination of parental rights papers, maybe someone tipped him on how to cancel those out, and letting him claim the baby on his tax returns is the way to go. I wouldn't trust him, what if by letting him do it, he can go and undo the terminated papers and reverses them or something? I know I sound childish, immature and maybe unrealistic, but when it comes to these types of things, I trust nobody and anything is possible. Until he gets his story straight and starts paying child support AND visiting the baby, don't allow him any of his "daddy" rights. So don't do it just for a few bucks, screw him... claim her on your taxes and that's that :o) i wouldnt do it.sounds like to me he just wants to the money. he doesnt deserve the money, afterall you have been buying all the baby stuff right? well what do you think u should do. tell him u dont deserve that and until i get some child support it aint gonna happen. i would be tryin to collect child support on him not lettin him get money if he wants to see your daughter then he needs to come over and show that he can be a good dad. it takes a real man to be a father, anyone can be a "daddy" so just dont hate him though, but he does sound like a dead beat. so my final answer would be hell no Girl, YOu need to claim your own. Don't let him do it. He wants to claim her and give you half. Half of what. He hasn't done ****. If anything you should claim his *** to and get yourself some more money. Girl come on you don't need him around at all. And if he is going to pull a gun out then you don't need anything to do with him and you should have an order put on his ***. Forget him and don't let him near you, your daughter or even your family. Cut him off and don't give him anything. You don't owe him nothin. NO! First, that would be tax fraud because he did not take care of your daughter more than 50 percent of the time. Can I ask a question? Why would you allow him to get *any* money that you are entitled to? You are the one taking care of your child. If you dont need the money then put in a savings account for your daughter or for emergencies. Any guy that pulls a gun on a lady is a loser. Dont do it, keep the money that you are entitled to it. If you let him claim her then it will be like you are paying him to ignore your daughter. Why do that when he will do it for free? I know you are a smart girl. If he does claim her behind your back them report him to the IRS!! LOL. Modified 1 year ago NO! NO! NO! NO! First off there is the possiblity that he would keep all the money and there would be nothing you could do about it but if he did comply and gave you half, yes you'd make some money you could probably use BUT he doesn't deserve any of it because look it at it this way, this would be money he would owe you ANYWAY for not coming across before..... Truly you are going to do what you are going to do but I wouldn't... You got your two dependants already, don't go borrowing trouble because it will cause them. Absolutely not! Why would you let him take advantage of both you and your daughter like that? He broke your heart in the past - who's to say that he won't walk away again? like, once the tax period is over. If he couldn't take responsibility before, chances are that he won't take it now, especially since he hasn't changed much. Also, from what you say he seems to be self absorbed and even dangerous... is that the kind of person you want to be around your child? I hope you make the right decision. Good luck! |
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